Foster Parent Adoption San Jose CA
San Jose, CA
International Adoption Program
Foster Adoption Assistance
Mountain View, CA
San Jose, CA
Mountain View, CA
International Adoption Program
Foster Care Adoption
Foster Care Adoption - How Does It Work?
As a foster parent you have a temporary obligation towards any child who comes into care. The State places children in foster care because the biological parents neglect or abuse the child.
Once the children have been placed in care, the natural parents are ordered by a judge to take parenting courses, behavior management courses, other courses which include topics on the effects of child abuse or neglect.
They will also be taught any parenting skills necessary so that they may learn to be responsible and caring adults to their children.
The child is allowed short visits with their parents and during this time the judge evaluates their progress. It can take up to 6 months (sometimes less, sometimes longer) for the parents to complete the judge's requests, but often there will be extensions, depending on the circumstances and the rulings of the judge.
While the child is in foster care, the state will look for relatives of the biological parents who can take care of the child. This is done to maintain family ties if possible.
If the parents are successful in following the judge's orders, they will get their children back. However, if they fail to comply, among other things, the judge will terminate the parent's rights to their children.
A relative will obtain custody of the child, or they will become what is known as "wards of the court" which means that Children's Services are now the child's legal guardian. In the meantime, they will become "legally open for adoption".
From Foster Care to Foster Care Adoption
Now that the child is legally open for adoption, as their foster family you may have bonded with the child/ren. If this is the case, you may be asked if you would be interested in adopting them, (this is what happened for us). If not the child will be placed on a adoption registry list.
If you fostered the child, with a private foster agency (as we did), chances are you will have to go through the entire "adoption process" again.
The reason for this is because private foster agencies do not deal with adoptions. They will send all of the children's records to your local children's services who do deal with adoptions and then you will be required to go through the "adoption process".
However, when you foster directly with children's services and then adopt, you may not have to go through the home study again as they are already familiar with you and have a good d...
Foster Care and Adoption
Are you providing foster care and adoption is now an option you would like to look further into? Or you may just want to adopt a child from foster care.
Either way, whether you are adopting a child or fostering a child, you will discover that many of the day to day tasks involved in the child rearing of kids are similair.
There are meals to cook, clothes to wash, family outings to organize, homework to supervise, TLC and conversations to share, values to instill and discipline to administer.
However, there are also some differences:
While a child is in foster care;
∗ as soon as a child comes into care you must record any unusual markings found on the child's body
∗ the child must see a doctor within the first 24 hours of their arrival to your home
∗ each time a child comes into your care you must learn all you can about their history if it is available
∗ the child's case worker will be a regular guest in your home, more so in the beginning and then depending on the child's behavior, the visits will lessen
∗ if you are experiencing any doubts, you must answer to the case worker
∗ you will be responsible for keeping daily logs on the child
∗ there are visits with the biological parents that you must get the child to
∗ a record of medical and dental visits must be kept
∗ it is expected that the child be registered into a specific amount of recreation (of their choosing)
When you adopt a child from foster care;
∗ adopting a child is a permanent addition to your family
∗ the child will have your last name
∗ you will not have to share authority with anyone regarding, medical treatments, decisions about school, religious practices and a variety of other parent...
Foster Child Adoption - It's an Option!
If you are thinking of adopting a child, you may want to look into foster child adoption as an option, I did and I couldn't be more grateful.
Hi, my name is Connie and I am pictured here with my husband of 21 years. We are happily married and 4 years ago our family went from happy to happily complete! Allow me explain.
For many of us, we struggle for years trying to conceive a child only to deal with the heartbreak of infertility or miscarriage.
For me, life was like a roller coaster. My emotions were up and down and doing loops. For many years we had tried to conceive, we love kids and wanted our own. We had all the tests, went through invetro several times. I had a miscarriage.
Some of the parents coming into the daycare were bringing in their foster children. They would tell me all about the little ones that would come into care and later if they went up for adoption, the foster parents were usually given first chance to adopt, especially if they had bonded with the child. I thought this sounded quite intriguing, so I looked into it further.
There are so many kids who need a good home and who need to feel loved, especially during a time when their family life is in an upheaval of sorts. I knew that my husband and I could offer both and more, it was just a matter of all of the preparation that needed to be done.
The Foster Care Process
Once my husband and I decided that this is what we wanted to do, I contacted a private foster agency in my town. They sent a social worker to visit our home and speak with us.
She ensured that our home met with safety standards and informed us of the additional things we would require once all the other paper work was approved. Things like kid proofing our home, smoke detectors in every room, extra fire extinguishers and carbon monoxide detectors.
We were then required to attend a 2-day foster parenting orientation or training session. Some foster agencies such as the Children's Aide Society now offer these sessions' 2hrs/week, over a 9-week period. It is called "Pride," and is now more advanced than before. These sessions are designed to prepare future foster parents for the often-emotional task of caring for children from dysfunctional homes.
Once this was completed, we had to go through the home study assessment of my family and myself. The home study consisted of an hour interview asking some personal questions, and it included medical records, police checks and references from both of us.
And then of course we would need some toys, single beds and because I wanted a baby, a crib would be necessary. We would have to get car seats, high chair, play pen etc. For the most part we got stuff from friends and family, but since it was used it had to be safety checked.
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